There really is something about elopements that get me...the chance for adventure, the quiet exchanging of vows, the intimacy and beauty...the snakes. Kidding. Not kidding.
Together with a group of amazing vendors I was able to create this super sweet and moody elopement in the hills of Hog Lake Canyon. If you're imagining a more personal ceremony for your day--don't hesitate! With the focus mainly on the couple, we were able to create a custom dress, floral design and killer makeup and hair for the day. No hustle and bustle meant a relaxing day, a road trip filled with lots of laughter, and a nature-filled bridal session overflowing with romance.
What more can you ask for?
Special thanks to our vendors:
Models: Caitlyn & Tarnell
Floral: Dragon Flower Design
Custom Dress: Affordable Elegance Bridal
HMUA: Curly Sue (Shannon)
Chairs: Artifact Rentals
When I realized a year ago that my direction as a photographer was heading towards mostly weddings and couples, I felt the most incredible clarity and surge of excitement. Trust me when I say I throw my heart into every session, but my favorite sessions ever are couple based.
Engagement sessions for me are necessary. I think it's a really important part of being someone's wedding photographer--a time when wedding planning is still in the thick but not as rushed, a relaxed moment to come together as couple and even better, time to get to know and hang out with me! I joke about the last part, but only partially because you'll hear me say it time and time again--pick the photographer who is going to listen to your story, invest in it, and do it justice. Pick someone who you're excited to spend the day with! And uh, obviously pick someone who won't miss a beat after her skirt flies up over her head on a public beach during your session.
Kendal and Ian captivated me the moment we had our first meeting, but they really blew me away during their engagement session. Despite (a little too much) wind and darkening skies, their love for one another was apparent. They are fun, adventurous and full of light. I cannot wait for their wedding.
Things even got a little steamy...sorry moms. But not too sorry. I hope you enjoy these as much as I do.
Don't get me wrong, okay. I love love a good posed session. I'm a huge fan of styled shoots, especially couples, but there's just something about getting down to the heart of things. Admittedly, most of us aren't actually models (and that's okay). I'm willing to bet if you're a photographer, your subjects aren't either, and might be looking for a little guidance from you. If you're like me and dying for the super raw emotions and real snort laughter, you're consistently working on how to get organic moments without just instructing "act natural". I mean, for me acting natural means I might fall over a tree branch. If you're in the same boat, grab a cup of coffee and read some of the best prompts and tips I want to share to get your couples even closer.
I recently did a beautiful sunset session for Kim and Ryan, who have been together for 12 years. They have 2 kids and really haven't had any photos taken together of just...well...since prom. Most couples I meet have either had very few or none (gasp) sessions together. If I could give any advice it would be to keep moving and keep talking. More than anything, throw your own heart into hearing their story, and I guarantee as time goes on, the prompts and conversations will flow.
Keep sipping and read below for my favorite conversation starters and prompts.
(I want to add that not everyone has the same comfort level. It's really important to listen and watch for cues. Follow your couples' lead always).
The fun prompts may seem a bit silly at first (because sometimes they are) . But they’re perfect icebreakers for getting your couple comfortable in front of the lens and gives them something to forget that they were ever nervous. What's even better, as goofy as they may initially feel, real laughter more often then not ensues. Start your sessions with a few of these and throw a few in later to keep up variety.
*Stand close and look into each others' eyes and wrap up into one another. Try to recall one of your partner's most embarassingly funny moments. Whoever laughs first has to listen to their partner share the story.
*Seductively whisper vegetable names into your partner's ear. Whisper your favorite pizza topping with sex appeal.
*Lean in close and smell your partner's hair. Their shoulder. Their nose. Really, really smell hard.
*Have your couple walk towards you side by side, holding hands. Hip check each other flirtatiously.
*Have one person grab the other person around the waist. Have the non-grabber try to run. Don't let go!
While also playful, these go a little deeper and encourage your couple to get closer. I don't ask my couples to kiss first because it often time takes a little bit of time to get warmed up and comfortable. The more romance you add in, the more hands-on (literally) you encourage your couple to get.
*Hug each other like you won't see each other for a year
*Put your head on your partners chest, wrap your arms around each other and sway gently (this is the PERFECT opportunity to start adding music into your sessions. If I don't have my speaker, I'll have my assistant pull out a phone. I've even asked what "their" song is or their first dance will be t0. And...maybe...just maybe...I've serenaded my couple for a few more laughs).
*Get close, face to face. Lean in to kiss, but don't. Get closer but don't kiss until I give you the go ahead.
*Wrap your arms around your partner from behind. Pull them in close and nestle into their neck.
These are my favorite, and some that inevitably become the ones I end up showcasing. This is where gauging comfort level is up to you--if your couple is really feeling it, it's okay to dive right in. Break down the walls. Bring all the love. You're about to ask your couple to let you in on the quieter, intimate moments. These are softer, gentler and absolutely beautiful to watch your couple connect (and re-connect) with. More often then not, I step back for a few and let things unfold without being in the way (sometimes I end up snort crying, ookkk).
*Get close and breathe each other in. Close your eyes for a moment and only focus on your partner.
*Take your partners face in your hand. Kiss their forehead, nose, cheeks and shoulder.
*Touch foreheads together and inhale together, sitting or standing.
*Move a piece of your partner's hair behind their ear. Kiss their ear and whisper that you love them
More than anything...
I can't say I have an exact formula, but I never get tired of capturing love. Be present. Listen to your couple. Engage with them. Ask them questions and you will get answers. I think more than anything, you have to be willing to be equally vulnerable. And hey, maybe that's just me, but I can't ask people to open their hearts to me and trust me if I'm not willing to do the same.
Have FUN. Be SILLY. Get WEIRD. Run through fields, swing each other around, bring flowers and champagne. Put your own touch to everything and write down your own favorite prompts when you come up with them!
I hope some of these tips and prompts help you on your upcoming sessions. If you have any tips you want to share or questions to ask, feel free to reach out because I would love to get to know you better!
check out the rest of kim and ryan's epic session below
It's no surprise that spring takes it's sweet time coming to the PNW. Every year I like to act indignant and shocked that it's still raining in March (and now into April) because that's my duty about living here. One thing I've learned lately is that progress is not linear. Relationships aren't linear.
I have to stop myself from getting caught up in the latest algorithms and trends..and don't get me wrong, I LOVE watching what's newest and what's popular, but I realize for myself that if I get too swept away in that, I miss opportunities.
Not every day ends in a beautiful sunset (but can it tho, cause really PNW, c'mon). Every relationship evolves over time. It grows, it changes, it molds and it sacrifices. These two have known each other since middle school, all the way back to student counsel days where asking for a piece of tape was a pick up line. I was busy rocking sweater vests and braces, and they were already cultivating a life long love.
No, it wasn't sunny. It was cold, rainy, windy and everything we've grown to know about early "spring" here, but it was perfect.
I wasn't sure how it would go asking a couple to come pose, pantless, in my home studio, with my 23 pound cat watching...but I think we can all agree this is fire (that's a cool thing to say, right?)
Heidi and Jake have quickly become two of my favorite people--not just because they're ridiculously cute together, but their vibe and attitude totally fills a room with happy. I'm not even kidding. I love every session I get to do, but there is something really special about letting your guard down not only with each other in your relationship, but in front of the camera. A whole new level of vulnerability comes with a sweet shoot like this. I cannot wait to continue to expand on the couples side because love is love is love is love, and it doesn't have to be celebrated only when you're getting married or remembering an anniversary. I'll bring you breakfast in bed any day of the week if you're willing to trust me with your hearts.
Yes, there's a lot of super love here, it's apparent...there's a also a lot of fart noises. If you only knew how many.
Better titled "y'all better just stop it because I can't handle it". Taylor and her beau (I'm 34 I can use that word) Kaleb came and bumped their rumps on various sharp cacti with me in the middle of snowstorm to get these magical images. I think we all know living in the PNW is a true adventure, and that sometimes when it's cold, you have to get creative in order to warm up. I'm pretty sure at some point I saw literal steam heat coming off these two. Super sweet on each other, incredibly down to earth and other-worldly beautiful inside and out, I am really excited to follow the sweet couple on their journey into man and wife later this year. I also can't wait to work with them again.
Until the rain finally stops, enjoy some of this sunshine in your life.
Taylor is a local model who is currently slaaayyyying the game and then some. You'd be missing out if you didn't check out some of her other work.
If you want romance, catch a PNW sunset. Even better, make sure it's freezing cold and that your photographer has the flu. I mean, but...really. I can't express my love enough for these two who have been together forever, but never had the chance to really capture their adoration for each other on camera. With an amazing team (shared below), we danced, we swayed, we laughed, and we (almost) completely forgot that it wasn't 70. Or summer. And that people weren't watching us. Titanic soundtrack all the way.
I loved the warmness of it all--the photos and our couple. When you're this cute and cozied up, you don't even care if there are rocks up your butt. True Life.
Special thanks to: Sue Hines Floral and Samie Jean Beardall for makeup.
Fire. Excitement. Ladders. Dried flowers. Lace dresses. Live tigers.
Kidding. About the tigers. This time (who knows what the rest of 2018 will hold).
This styled bridal shoot was a dream to shoot--talk about a team that came together flawlessly to put together a vision of warm and moody, classic and modern twists and little bit of sexy. I loved the idea of taking a very small, unassuming space, and filling it with simple things to create a bold wedding look for the adventurous bride. A lace dress coupled with this insanely beautiful and unique bouquet and a little window light made everything glow (and I don't just mean the candles). I had never thought of using dried flowers, but I adored this take on a typical arrangement custom-made for a winter bride. I had a lot of fun playing with limited light, seeing as we changed angles, the shadows created a slightly different feeling each time (evidence that you don't need a lot of space or light for magic to happen).
Proof that bridal can be beautifully muted, moody and wickedly gorgeous all at once.
special thanks to Anna (model) Beth (Snap Dragon Flower Farms) and Emily & Erika (Affordable Elegance Bridal) for their stellar contributions and trusting me with an open flame.
You read it right--get strange. Wear the dress. Climb a mountain in freezing temperatures with someone you've never met. Do a little witchy dance. Let it all go.
That's what we did, Jazmine and I (featured in this post). PS she's a super rad artist and uh, Harry Potter aficionado like myself so, score.
2017 was full of amazing women, and I took it on as a personal project to meet and photograph as many of them as I could (if only I hadn't started so late in the year.....thank goodness for 2018, amirite?). There's something really empowering and really special about being completely vulnerable in front of the camera. Seeing yourself through an artistic heart is therapeutic. so I've been told. Truth is, it's equally rewarding for me because I've produced some of my best work with these sessions, and made some really fantastic friends.
So get weird, in the best possible way. Make sure to invite me along.
I'm always a big fan of people who trust me enough to get up early, hike up into the woods in formal clothes and still leave laughing. Heidi and Jake helped bring this creative vision to light, with a little alternative-dress help from Affordable Elegance Bridal in CDA. If you're planning your 2018 or beyond wedding, count me in for your adventure. This just proves that you don't have to be a traditional bride and can rock your own personal style on your special day.
thanks to all involved, for getting fake married and for answering all the congratulations from fellow hikers with much enthusiasm
PS: fun fact--I shot this session in my pjs. It happens.